A Frederick man strangled one relative and threatened to kill another when they refused to lend him a car or money to buy drugs Friday, according to court documents.

Joseph Michael McLaughlin, 53, had just been released from the hospital Friday and was staying with relatives when one of the relatives called Frederick police for a disturbance at the residence at 4:05 p.m., according to the documents. Officers arrived to find the female relative who had called 911 outside the apartment saying that McLaughlin strangled one relative and threatened to kill the other in a fit of rage brought on when they both refused to lend McLaughlin a car or money.

McLaughlin immediately denied any wrongdoing when police entered the apartment to find him sitting with the relative who had noticeable red markings around her neck indicative of strangulation, the documents state.

The relative also told officers that McLaughlin attacked and strangled her after she and the other relative refused to lend him a car and money. She specifically refused to lend him money, telling him she needed it to pay rent, the documents state. While the relative was being strangled, the other picked up the phone to call 911, only for McLaughlin to chase them out of the apartment, according to the documents.

“You’d better hang up that phone or I’m gonna kill you,” McLaughlin told the fleeing relative, according to the documents. A third relative told police they heard McLaughlin loudly threaten to burn down the apartment with a cigarette, the documents state.

McLaughlin said he needed the vehicle and money to go buy food, but no one believed him because he asked the female relative who picked him up from the hospital to drive him to buy heroin, according to the documents.

When officers told McLaughlin he was under arrest for threatening to commit arson, reckless endangerment and first- and second-degree assault, McLaughlin stiffened his arms and attempted to resist being handcuffed until he was eventually subdued, adding a fifth offense — resisting arrest — to his list of charges, court records indicate.

In spite of his alleged crimes, McLaughlin had support during a bail review hearing before Frederick County District Court Judge Earl W. Bartgis, Jr. on Monday. A woman who identified herself as the relative who initially called 911 on McLaughlin sat in the front row to speak in his favor, telling Bartgis the family just wanted to see McLaughlin get the help he needs.

“He was good for a long time ... he was clean, but then he relapsed,” the woman told Bartgis.

Assistant Public Defender Marjorie Castillo also argued in McLaughlin’s favor, asking Bartgis to consider setting a condition by which McLaughlin could be released from the detention center. In spite of what prosecutors called McLaughlin’s “lengthy” criminal history and multiple failures to appear in court, Castillo called McLaughlin’s actions on Friday out of character, insisting that he is “not a violent person.”

Bartgis did seem sympathetic with the statements of McLaughlin’s defense and relative, but the judge was ultimately not swayed to allow for McLaughlin’s release on Monday without more assurances.

“Even though you say it’s an isolated incident, it’s still a very serious incident,” Bartgis said as he ordered McLaughlin to remain in the Frederick County Adult Detention Center without bail pending future court hearings.

Follow Jeremy Arias on Twitter: @Jarias_Prime.

Jeremy Arias is the Frederick city and government reporter for The Frederick News-Post.

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Police and prison cannot help mentally ill people.


While that may be your opinion, mine is that prison will help protect the public from someone like this, whether he's mentally ill or not.


The guy should be sent on a one way mission to Outer Space. Sayonara!


This is for fido to confirm that I'm not a racist:

This guy should be flogged in a public square and then locked up for life.


They should've sent over a social worker. [lol][ninja]




At least they didn’t kneel on his neck.

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When one doesn't know the difference between "free" and "freely," or what "volunteer" means, there's always deflection in the form of attacking others. Right, NMP? [lol]



When one attempts to split hairs to try to make their point, one should know the difference between hair and hare.

Right KR999?

Take your "L".


When one can't grasp the concept of one, very simple point (even though that person claims to be sooooo smart and have such an outstanding education,) one shouldn't attempt to take on someone whose intelligence will ultimately prevail in the long run.

Right NMP?



No, NMP, but we are used to loser morons like you making fools of themselves here. And what "battle of wits" are you referring to? All I did was prove you wrong, not that it was a major accomplishment, that is. It was actually quite easy considering your own dim wit. Maybe you should go back to school and get yourself another degree, this one in Elementary Comprehensive Reading 101. Then you might learn to think before you speak with your fingers here.


Just can't let it go, NMP, can you? I believe it's obvious to everyone who has been reading this exchange between us that you're trying to save face but, trust me, your face isn't worth saving.

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