Mothers find strength in Heroin Action Coalition

Four mothers who recently formed the Heroin Action Coalition are, from left, Lisa Lowe, president; Tina Canter; Beth Schmidt, treasurer; and Carin Miller, secretary.

Each Tuesday night in a small conference room at the nondescript Crossroads Center near the point where South and Jefferson streets meet in Frederick, a group of women find strength in one another.

In this room, they share, grieve and encourage, all in an attempt to lift the burden imposed on their lives by heroin abuse. The group, to this point all mothers of addicts, understands the unique fear that strikes when an addicted child turns off his or her phone, leaves home after a fight erupts or evades even the most basic questions.

“To be the parent of an addict is excruciating and exhausting. And trying to get them help is excruciating and exhausting,” said Beth Schmidt, wearing a black sweatshirt emblazoned with “I hate heroin” in hot pink letters.

The Heroin Action Coalition’s peer family support group has been meeting at Crossroads since May, though it started under a different name.

The Heroin Action Coalition, in its current form, is a collective of other small organizations started by mothers across the state. The group seeks to ensure that appropriate opiate addiction treatment is available to all who request it or need it without regard for that person’s income or insurance coverage.

The need is real, said founder Lisa Lowe, who struggled for years to secure treatment for her son, a recovering addict.

Since 2007, heroin or prescription opioid drugs have been involved in the majority of the state’s overdose deaths. More than 2,100 people have died from overdose of heroin or opioids since May 2007, according to the Department of Health and Mental Hygiene.

After grief, sharing help

Schmidt’s son, Sean, is among those who have died.

He died in December 2013, two days after his 23rd birthday, from an accidental overdose.

Schmidt, who is from Sykesville, carries around a list with her of other young people who have died and speaks regularly at awareness events, but that doesn’t mean she’s immune from breaking down from time to time when discussing Sean’s death.

She didn’t have any resources when she first found out her son was addicted, so she started a Facebook group.

“I wanted to be that voice for the other parents. The things that I was learning, I wanted to get out in the public. Had I known what I know now, I might have done things differently,” she said.

For example, Schmidt was once turned away from a treatment facility after telling them Sean had used heroin for only four months; the facility said they had others waiting to get in who’d suffered longer. But Schmidt learned later that Sean had lied about how long he’d been using the drug to avoid hurting her more, she said.

Eventually, Sean would gain admission to a 28-day inpatient program, but that success was short-lived.

“He worked it like he was fighting for his life,” Schmidt said. “And evidently he worked it too hard because after 11 days, he was sent home.”

The program — and the family’s insurance company — simply said it was time for him to go.

That, Schmidt said, is evidence that Maryland’s treatment programs need an overhaul.

Lowe and other mothers who are members of the coalition say they’ve also struggled to secure adequate treatment for their children.

Tina Canter, a group member from Frederick, said her family sent her son to a treatment program in Florida after running into closed doors here.

Lowe first became aware of her son’s struggle with substance use disorder when he was a teenager. With about 100 beds available for adolescent treatment in Maryland, “I couldn’t get him into treatment.”

“As a mother of a child with an often-fatal mental health disorder, I was appalled that I could not find treatment for my son,” Lowe said. “If he had cancer, or any other disease, he would get the care and it wouldn’t matter how much money I had or what kind of insurance I had.”

Pushing policy

Given the still-increasing numbers of overdose deaths, coalition members say the state needs to focus funding to add residential treatment facilities, particularly for the treatment of adolescents.

The group also wants the state to bolster performance measures for treatment programs, create uniform treatment standards and increase oversight of rehabilitation centers.

An 11-point policy agenda created by the group is being circulated to lawmakers.

Last year, advocates worked to pass two pieces of legislation, which created a certification program for the anti-overdose drug naloxone and protected witnesses of an overdose from criminal prosecution.

This year, they also hope to encourage the state to begin an awareness campaign to end the stigma surrounding addiction and spread information about the naloxone and Good Samaritan programs.

Other areas of focus include strengthening the state’s Prescription Drug Monitoring Program.

Moving forward

Carin Miller, who helped start the family support group, is pleased to see that it continues to grow and help new families.

The Mount Airy woman’s son, who is in recovery, moved to Colorado for a job a few months ago and is doing well, she said.

“He told me the other day how he’d wasted five years in life,” Miller said. “He’s enjoying the beautiful mountains out there and the beautiful sky.”

Now a member of the Heroin Action Coalition board, Miller is hoping to create a smoother path to help and provide services for those who come after her.

“I’m fighting to save my child, but in the long run, I’m fighting to save everyone’s child,” she said.

The Heroin Action Coalition is now active through chapters in 13 Maryland counties. For more information, visit www.heroinactioncoalition.com.

Follow Danielle E. Gaines on Twitter: @danielleegaines.

Danielle E. Gaines covers politics and government in Frederick County, splitting her time between Winchester Hall and The State House. Having grown up in Illinois, she lived in New York and California before settling in Maryland.

(9) comments

fnfn

I knew this before, "the cage" or society, is the problem. This reminds me of how homeless is solved with a home for less money.

"Bruce Alexander argues this discovery is a profound challenge both to the right-wing view that addiction is a moral failing caused by too much hedonistic partying, and the liberal view that addiction is a disease taking place in a chemically hijacked brain. In fact, he argues, addiction is an adaptation. It's not you: It's your cage."

Both liberals and conservatives can be easily wrong, because facts trump theories and opinions. We have a lot of cages, society, hearts, and minds to change.

http://www.alternet.org/drugs/likely-cause-addiction-has-been-discovered-and-it-not-what-you-think

abowers1

Shiftless- your point is irrelevant on this situation because if you actually read the article to the point where I stopped, the mother uses the word "kid" which makes one assume that it is a cancer of a young person. The cancers you speak of are from years of abuse of cigarettes and whatnot. Are you blaming children and young people for their cancers? I said my heart goes out to these ladies. They have had no choice in their children's decisions, but as a mother I too cannot imagine anything that would make me stop loving or fighting for my child. It is just comparing the drug addiction of a young person to the cancer of a young person is utterly ridiculous.

dgood5

Great article and good to see some awareness being shown in the Frederick area. There is no question that public/community awareness is desperately needed. This is an Epidemic across the nation and right here in Maryland there are shattering statistics but because they are so far behind, we the community won't hear true numbers for 2014 until 2016. We are losing kids, loved ones, Veterans, people from all walks of life in record numbers daily. Kids drink and try drugs, they get hooked, adults get hurt and are prescribed pain killers and before they can get better they are addicted. I agree that no one has ever said they wanted to become a drug addict. The brain no longer functions the way it normally would and the rationality just isn't there to make that choice to just up and quit. Wouldn't it be nice if that was an easy choice and that this country offered adequate treatment but instead society says "not in my backyard" or "not in my family". Few of us out here are exempt from knowing, caring, or have a loved one who suffers from addiction whether it be opiate use, alcohol or other drugs. Cigarettes were proven to cause cancer, COPD, etc...people start smoking, continue to smoke knowing all too well what the warning labels state and they aren't as addictive by smoking one as it is to use only once so there is a comparison here if you want to think about that realistically. We need long term treatment availability in this country and so much more...

deutschmnn

Our foreign policy in Afghanistan and the exponential increase in heroin use is directly connected. Before we entered Afghanistan the Taliban had all but eradicated poppy production. Since our entry into the country, poppy production has been the highest it's ever been, increasing availability and driving down the price dramatically.

Treat the problem, not the symptoms.

akakeef

Unless you have ever been faced with the issues, you are not an "expert". Never, ever has anyone woken one day and said "I want to be an addict". They do NOT have a choice.

abowers1

Although my heart goes out to these mothers, I too was disgusted by the cancer comparison and had to stop reading the article.

shiftless88

You say this because you don't understand. Two things: lung cancer is often caused by smoking but do smokers with lung cancer have difficulties getting treatment? Other cancers are enhanced by poor choices in diet, environment and so forth; do they have difficulties getting treatment? Should we stop treatment for overweight people with diabetes in favor of fit people with diabetes? Second, have you ever had a taste of alcohol, or been prescribed an opiate after surgery? If you have and didn't become addicted, congratulations. Others do the same thing but their body and brain react differently. That reaction is not their choice, and it creates a craving that is very intense.

bikerjohn

Cancer and many other illnesses are not by choice.

Heron addiction and overdose is by choice.

shiftless88

Many illnesses have likely involved some choice. And yet the medical and insurance groups don't discriminate or pull back funding. Do you eat perfectly, exercise regularly, brush and floss your teeth regularly, and have you done this since childhood? No ice cream in your life? Ever had a cavity? Perhaps you are perfect, I don't know, but everyone makes less than perfectly healthy choices in their life so why is it that they can still get medical treatment and coverage for the resulting illnesses when addicts have such difficulty?

Welcome to the discussion.

Keep it clean. No vulgar, racist, sexist or sexually-oriented language.
Engage ideas. This forum is for the exchange of ideas, not personal attacks or ad hominem criticisms.
TURN OFF CAPS LOCK.
Be civil. Don't threaten. Don't lie. Don't bait. Don't degrade others.
No trolling. Stay on topic.
No spamming. This is not the place to sell miracle cures.
No deceptive names. Apparently misleading usernames are not allowed.
Say it once. No repetitive posts, please.
Help us. Use the 'Report' link for abusive posts.

Thank you for reading!

Already a member?

Login Now
Click Here!

Currently a News-Post subscriber?

Activate your membership at no additional charge.
Click Here!

Need more information?

Learn about the benefits of membership.
Click Here!

Ready to join?

Choose the membership plan that fits your needs.
Click Here!